Wednesday, July 20, 2011

Rahheem and Alison

I received this email from some friends at church and I wanted to put the word out to all my friends that we need major prayers!! These are great people and I know that God is with them but I think it wouldn't hurt to have us all to pray with them. Here is a copy of her email:

Hey everyone! Sorry it has been a while since our last update, but our internet has not been working until yesterday. So we will include information from last week's appointment with the neurosurgeon in this email.
We saw the neurosurgeon 7/11/11. We were blessed to have our good friend Scott Souder ask to accompany us to the appointment for support. The neurosurgeon first gave good news, saying that referring to the growth as a "mass on the brain" is an overstatement. What it actually is, is a mass in Rahheem's optical nerves where they come together in the brain forming an "H" shape. The doctor showed us all the MRI results, and said that this mass could either be inflammation of some sort, or a growth. He said that even if it is a growth, the chances of it being malignant are very slim, but still a possibility. He said that the growth is not acting like a malignant tumor, because it has been progressivly growing over at least 10 years. He did name the possibility of Lymphoma, which scared us quite a bit because Rahheem's mother died of Lymphoma when he was 2 years old (she was 26 at the time, and he's now 25). However, he said that this is not a very big possibility. He said most likely it is a benign tumor that would not spread anywhere outside of the optical nerves. Other good news he gave us was that if it is inflammation (treatable with steroids) or a benign or malignant tumor (treatable with radiation), and they are able to shrink the growth and relieve some of that pressure on the nerves, there is a good chance that Rahheem may regain some of his vision in his left eye. Since the right eye is just blackness, the doctor said that he will probably not regain any vision in that eye. Unfortunately, the doctor said that the MRI that Rahheem had done 2 years ago through JPS in fact DID show this growth in his optical nerves, but apparantly the radiologist did not read the results appropriately.
During this appointment, the neurosurgeon said that he wanted to investigate the possiblity of Rahheem undergoing a biopsy of this infected area to make an absolute diagnosis of what is causing his optical nerve atrophy. This is a major surgery, in essence brain surgery, because the surgeons would have to make an incision in his scalp behind his hairline, cut out a piece of skull bone, and direct an instrument under Rahheem's brain to where the optical nerves come together and take a biopsy section of this growth to give to the pathologist. Then after they replace his skull and scalp, Rahheem would be in the ICU for a day, the regular hospital recovery for another 2 days, and be out of work for 6 weeks. Since this is such a major and invasive surgery, the neurosurgeon wanted to consult with the neuroopthamologist as well as a panel of other neurosurgeons in his unit to verify that this was the best and most important course of action to diagnose the problem. He said that the conference would be Friday (7/15/11) and that he would let us know either Friday afternoon or early this week. We didn't hear anything until today, when his nurse called Rahheem and told him that the doctors all agreed that a biopsy was necessary.

This surgery is scheduled for 8/10/11. We don't yet know what time of day the surgery will be, but we have a pre-appointment with the surgeon on 8/8/11 to discuss things further. Of course we are very anxious about this, and Rahheem is really nervous about having this major surgery, but we are continuing to trust that God is controlling this situation and leading us down the most productive course. We are hopeful that the results will come quickly after the surgery, and we can quickly move to treatment to hopefully restore some vision to his left eye. We are also worried about finances, because Rahheem's "insurance" is not necessarily insurance per se, and is NOT covering the vast majority of these expenses we've incurred thus far, and now we are facing an extremely expensive surgery. This is made even more worrisome due to the fact that I am not currently working. I chose to leave the job I was at due to some ethical and legal dilemmas that I could not agree with and did not want my professional license on the line for. Now of course being 22 weeks pregnant, it is impossible for me to find another position anywhere. So I am pregnant and unemployed, Rahheem is underinsured, and we are having more and more piled on. We are concerned about how to pay utilities and rent, much less medical bills. Now we are facing a situation of at least 6 weeks where neither of us are working. So please continue to pray for those issues as well! We have a follow-up appointment with our neuro-opthamologist this Thursday (7/21) just to check Rahheem's vision in his left eye to see how quickly it's deteriorating (Rahheem says that he believes it's continuing to worsen). We appreciate all of you and your prayers and love and support. We have been incredibly showered with prayers across the country from the west coast to the east, and we are on many church and personal prayer lists. We know and trust that God is working!! We love you all and again appreciate all the support and love you have shown us over the past several weeks!
In Him,
Alison and Rahheem Wofford


thanks for your time in reading and all your prayers
Jennifer

Wednesday, March 30, 2011

Catching up..... part one

Okay... so I suck as a blogger.

It's hard for me to just sit down and put my thoughts out there. Especially since I know that not a lot of people are going to read them.... or care to read them.

I am going to post when things happen to me, maybe that way I can get into it. We have several things coming up this year and our lives have been dramatically changed in the last year and a half since I blogged so I think it's time for an update.

2010 was crazy. Andrew's job at Waddell and Reed wasn't going well. Our marriage was rocky. We were financially strained. Things were CRAZY! However, when God shuts a door he always opens a window. And the window he opened for us was a huge, front window, the kind that has a large window seat under it!!

Andrew started working for Morgan Stanley at the end of October and thus began the journey back to life as normal as we knew it.

Morgan Stanley is an amazing company!! They care about their employees, they invest in their employees, they TRAIN their employees! This job, that wasn't even avaliable, that wasn't even an opening.. has been truly God sent.

Because of this new job we are getting out of debt. We are looking to move into a rental home. We are even planning a trip back to Canada to see Andrew's parents and to see his oldest brother get married.

It's amazing to me how simple having the right job, a good job can be. Being that I am a stay at home mom and that we have made that decision and that Andrew supports that decision, it's important that he make a good living and now it seems like he is.

We are truly blessed as a family. There just isn't enough praising to God that I can do for all the good that he has given to me. So in light of that I will post more often this year to be a witness to all those around me that God does move among us.

Wednesday, March 25, 2009

Spring time

I personally am a summer baby. I love summer. Even when it's hot. Doesn't bother me that much at all. But lately I have been looking around and noticing that spring isn't too bad. EXCEPT for now. Today it didn't get over 60 and it was raining and yucky. I would love to know what the heck happened to global warming today!!!!

I guess it's a trade off living here in Texas that we really only have 2 or 2 1/2 seasons. Summer, winter, and I guess you could call the other sort of season fring! Because let's face it we don't have a real spring and we don't have a real fall.

Of course none of this really matters, I am just shooting my mouth off tonight. Just wanted to rant about the cold weather because poor Mabel has to stay here at the house with me all the time and we look so forward to the days when we can go outside with the dogs and play and today just was not one of those days.

It also sucks because the electric companies are charging an arm and a leg and your first born to send electricity to your house so we have to be in a cold house because I cannot justify turning the heater on for one day!!!! What the heck man!!

PPPFFFFFF... whatta gonna do?!?!?!?

Thursday, February 19, 2009

My daughter just loves the dryer!!
Posted by Picasa

Monday, January 12, 2009

2009!!!!

Wow, how fast time flies! 2009 already. So much is already happening. My very best friend is pregnant with twins! A wonderful couple that we know at church is pregnant with a little boy! My husband's finicial advisor job is starting to hit an upswing. And in a few days we start potty training wtih little Miss Mabel!

It's amazing how much time can elapse before you realize it. I am grateful for all that I have and all that I have been through in the last few month. I am hoping that 2009 brings tons more great moments for me and everyone around me.

To anyone that reads this, I wish you a very happy new years and look forward to what is to come!!!

Thursday, December 11, 2008

CRAZY!!!!

That's how our lives feel right now... CRAZY!!!

Andrew is working all the time between his new job, coaching and still doing eBay. Mabel is growing up so fast, she is into everything and really starting to talk more in a way that we can all understand her. And I am much more involved in church and family and everything that the days seem to zip by me.

A really good friend of mine is graduating today, it just seems like yesterday that she started on her second bachelors and now here it is three years later and boom, she is done!!!

Another friend of mine is working on starting a family and it just seems like yesterday that she was getting married and that was over a year ago.

My own daughter just turned two last month and it feels like it was just a few months ago that we brought her home.

I mean where is the time going??? It really makes me realized that I have to slow down just a little bit and enjoy the moments I can because time really is fleeting!

I hope I can savor these moments and I hope that I can help others do the same.

Friday, November 28, 2008

Happy Holidays

I was sitting here checking my email while my husband ran to Wal-mart to get a cable that we needed to finish rearranging our living room for the Christmas decorations and I got to thinking...

I am really grateful this year for everything that I have and everyone that I know and love. I don't think I have ever been as grateful as I am this year.

With Andrew starting the new job and us not having a lot of money we could be bitter. Instead I look around and realize I have a husband that is willing to run errands when I don't feel like it. A daughter that keeps me laughing. Dogs that love me no matter what. A roof over my head, good food to eat and most of all family that is supportive.

I am very blessed and this holiday season is going to be wonderful because I get to see Christmas through a child's eyes again! How wonderful.

I hope anyone that reads this knows that I thank God for them often and want them to have a wonderful December and wonderful times this Holiday season!!!!